To write in a reflective, considered manner. To spill the beans. To get your words on paper. To get the stuff ticking over in your mind into words. To speak your mind. To share your story. To journal. To record. To voice.
We think the following is a fairly comprehensive list of topics (listed in random order) for you to chose to muse (write, reflect) on, with room to interpret the topics as you think appropriate...
On life after birth (debriefing the birthing experience) On time On life after loss
On hat-changing
On emotions (your own, emotional responses, emotional shifts)
On faith
On expectation
On disappointment
On achievement
On sleep
On relationships
On priorities
On work
On competition (developmental milestones; with other mothers)
On ‘instinct’ (backing yourself; not knowing what you want to do; listening to your inner voice)
On what to wear (what does it mean to dress ‘as a mum’; the ambiguity of sexuality)
On relationships
On advice
On role-models
On developing a thick skin
On being made of glass (the first time a friend went straight for your child, before acknowledging your presence)
On getting it wrong
On ambiguity (I don’t want to play this game today)
The 'This Is Not A Baby Manual' book project is finding its wings with Claire and Amanda. The project involves gathering up a collection of short stories exploring the intangible aspects of the journey of a new mother. Embracing the viral and the old school printed book format, we invite you to submit your musings to be considered for this project, as outlined on this wee information portal (see: Blog Archive below).
Claire: 50's furniture. what would CJ Cregg do?. frocks. write it. stitch it. banana bread. Florence Broadhurst. make it up. rewrite. why yes, I will have some more souffle. swim.
Amanda: thinking about thinking. found objects. text. learning. wisdom. paper. grey. assemblage. bikes. freshly baked. side angle pose. making. communication. the sociocultural. handmade. musing.